In my experience there never comes a time when you don't remember. Though this year marks 50 that have passed since the death of my husband, the sights and sounds can return in amazing clarity, the absolute horror of that night, even the pain in my foot from kicking the door when they told me he was gone. Just the same are the events the night of baby Sarah's death.(why is it always night?) I still shudder at the sound of a ringing phone. Yet, my remembrance changes nothing and it helps no one especially me.
You must go on living for however long your time in this existence lasts. So why not make the remaining years as good as they can be and let that goodness stand as a memorial to the everlasting love you shared with your wife.
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Date: 2018-01-16 01:54 pm (UTC)You must go on living for however long your time in this existence lasts. So why not make the remaining years as good as they can be and let that goodness stand as a memorial to the everlasting love you shared with your wife.
Be at peace my friend.